Support is reciprocal...

In the African -Caribbean community, most people seem to complain about support-or lack thereof. However from my own personal experience, these same people that complain about lack of support do very little to assist others. 

Top signs that you are a support hoarder.

. You expect people to attend your shows but you do not reciprocate back because of course you are a 'big girl' or  a 'big boy'. 

.You tag everybody and litter their timeline with all your updates no matter how minute and you expect people to 'like, share,comment' (you even private message them in case 'they didn't get the message.') Your timeline on the other hand is for VIP's- where you only share and comment on post from those in your 'elite big boy/girls club)

Okay, so you get the gist. I am going to keep this post really short and sweet as do not want it sounding negative. I am a lover of balance and fairness (maybe it's the Libra in me..lol), but don't expect people to aid you in your endeavours, if you do very little to support theirs- support; just like respect, is reciprocal.