I am leaving my husband

Stop, in the name of love before go off and pack your bags because your husband doesn't write you long love notes as Facebook status. You know the ones I am talking about.The 'Le boo just came home and bought me this. Isn't he so sweet.' 








  'I love my honey boo bear just because she is so special' often posted with this type of picture.
All of a sudden your darling hubby just doesn't seem to measure up. I mean Lola's husband must be the best thing ever. He surprises her with roses and chocolates for no reason, just for being 'a fab wife.' Have you ever considered maybe Lola's husband gave her the gifts because of the guilt he felt after beating her black and blue. Perhaps, he picked up the chocolates on his way home from his mistress', or even maybe Lola just wants to prove to the world how loving her relationship is by posting present she bought by herself. Think about that before you make your way to Mountain of fire for that 'I must marry someone like Lola's hubby by force' prayer night. 

Of course Lola's spouse might just be a loving and appreciative guy, but the point is, stop comparing. Desist from wishing you had what your friends have and just enjoy what God has blessed you with.